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The Promised* Definition of Friendship

27 March 2005
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You probably know the feeling of friendship quite well.

You feel the truth about someone, and friendship follows:

You discover, what you can and want to give to someone, and you
try to give that,

and you expect from another, that he or she feels the truth
about you, and (that he or she) also acts upon that.

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So we can define it:

Friendship is feeling the truth about someone and discovering as
a result, what you can and want to give to someone (and to many,
as you can have many friendships), and to try to give that -

and also expecting from another (and from many), to feel the
truth about you, and that he or she also acts upon that.

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And now we can more easily look at the distortions and reversals, that
have been introduced:

Friendship is NOT 'how to get something from someone:'

'What you have to observe,

what you have to do and know and see,

in order to get from another (and from others) what you
want or need.'

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But Criminal Minds *(1) have made it seem like that, and they
try very hard to make life, or even a whole society, be like
that,

because that is how THEY (Criminal Minds) are,

- THAT is what Putin is -

and that is how THEY want people to be "friends" to THEM.

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But friendship IS NOT, that you 'see only the mask' that
a "friend," who is in actual fact a Criminal Mind, does
demand of you to accept

- to accept it, as if his mask, his 'act,' as if
"THAT is being himself" (or "being herself" of
course).

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THEIR idea of "friendship" is, that you
believe all their varying lies that they
use in varying circumstances

(as you know it from Vladimir
Putin)

- lies about themselves, about their
feelings, about their motives and
intentions, about their past, about
others - and

THAT "is friendship," according to such
"friends" of yours, (or family members,
maybe, of yours).

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A Criminal Mind wants you NOT TO FEEL the truth
about him (nor about others),

but he intends that you assume and accept, and are
convinced,

(also in order to make life with him "more
easy on you," "to make life feel pleasant
to you," he wants you to accept)

that the pretense IS him, that "you are feeling 'the
truth' about him," that "he is 'being himself'."

That's what Putin WANTS.

That's what he INTENDS. *(11)

Of course this applies to women as well, a
soul is a soul.

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However, YOU MUST NOT EVER FOLLOW THE
INTENTIONS OF A CRIMINAL MIND. *(10)

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Again: When THEY demand "friendship" of you, that
then means, that they demand, that you accept (and
feel and think with and act upon) their lies *(11)

- that you feel, as if "what they say, is the
truth about themselves," and

that you feel as if "what they say, is the
truth about others." *(11)

You can again take the example of Putin,
if you like.

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In other words, THEY define "friend" as someone who
believes what they say, and who does what they want.
*(11)

An ACTUAL friend, however, does examine
whatever you say, and tells you his own
observations, and

an actual friend tries to understand - not
just what you pretend, of course, but - what
you actually do want - what your real, true
intentions are.

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Friendship is NOT 'trying to get someone's approval or
admiration or support'

and then getting it by finding out what HE (or SHE)
wants you to know and see and do,

- and of course that means also -

by complying with what you then have to 'NOT see,'
and

by finding out or sensing, what past you then have
to forget or MUST NOT remember, or must pretend
"does to exist,"

in order to maintain a "friendship" with
such a person - with a Criminal Mind,
actually, that is, be it a "friend" or
a family member, or a "senior" at your
work - and *(11)

by sensing, or by 'being made to understand,' which
NORMAL AND DECENT, CARING, AND FRIENDLY things

- that you always used to feel and think
of and did -

you now suddenly "must refrain from doing,"

or even "must now suddenly consider 'your
feeling or thinking or doing bad or harmful
things'." *(11)

By exposing Putin's murdering of Russian
people, you "betray Russia."

How insane and destructive can you be
made to be by any Criminal Mind (by
Putin)? Very...

Putin does not want Russia to be
a part of NATO, but he wants to
get China and Russia to OPPOSE
NATO.

So instead of alleviating any
poverty, we have to maintain
weapons etc. - which is EXTREMELY
expensive.

You are being made so intensely
insane - WHY?

Because of what you

- what the basically SANE,
what the NORMAL people -

do not know, and which I thus
have to tell you.

Because I AM your friend, BECAUSE
of my Love for you, I have to
teach you this:

That is how Criminal Minds think and work and operate -
and how they try to dominate you and others. *(11)

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You are not like that - even when you are forced to act like
that - it is NOT YOUR NATURE AT ALL,

it is very much contrary to your nature, and it is contrary to
the nature of any normal person.

According to your nature, you:

DO NOT EVER FOLLOW THE INTENTIONS OF A
CRIMINAL MIND *(10)

under no circumstances, other than
to tactically pretend to do so in
order to carry out YOUR purpose,
which also then is to

ACTIVELY AVOID THE INTENTIONS OF A
CRIMINAL MIND.

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It IS your nature to be friends with people:

To feel the truth about them, and

to then see what they need, and

to then try and provide (give) that,

in accordance with your own abilities and possibilities, and

in line with your personal preferences. *(2)

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That is what people DO, normally

- which you can observe immediately when some natural disaster
occurs somewhere,

(by definition, a natural disaster is not
intended, nor caused by a Criminal Mind, and
therefore it does NOT HAVE the Energy of
INTENTION to harm people)

where people do not have to detect, nor to oppose or to
overcome the Energy of someone wanting to destroy life,

when people do not have to detect and fight against
the INTENTION and the lies, by which a Criminal Mind
(or a group of Criminal Minds) tries to prevent
people from being actually helped, but

where there is NO Criminal Mind to oppose,

then it is very easy for people to (continue to) feel their
own nature and thus to follow it -

to be friends with people,

which is feeling the true condition of people, and then seeing
what they need, and wanting to provide that, according to your
own liking,

because doing so, IS the true nature of everyone

(but not of Criminal Minds - as you may know, by now). *(1)

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It is only Criminal Minds, *(3) who do enjoy destroying actual
friendship.

And they also destroy any actual friendship you give to THEM,
(because they do not want, that you feel the truth about them,
and because)

to them, "friendship" is only 'what one has to do and to know
and to see in order to get from you and others what one wants;'

and so

they also force YOU to act like that TO THEM:

"You must know, or else you must be taught in various ways,
what it is, that 'they want,' and what 'is expected of
you'"

- by the Criminal Mind who is "your friend" -

and then "you must provide that to them," or "you must act
or behave accordingly," and

"then all is fine and there will be no trouble, but then
there will be harmony and stability, and a 'stable and
reliable friendship'."

But...

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In actual friendship, you (are actively and constantly busy to) feel
the truth about someone (and about many persons), *(4) and by that,

you discover, and feel in yourself, what you can and want to give to
someone (and to many). *(5)

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Also - in actual (reliable) friendship - you are not acting upon
feelings and ideas that a Criminal Mind projects at you

(about others, about your friend(s), and about yourself and
about the world in general) - feelings and ideas that you
receive AND that are

projected by Criminal Minds in such a way, that it feels to you,
as if "you are feeling your own feelings and thoughts:"
*(6)(7)(8)

You stand up to these and you try and feel truth, because doing that,
IS friendship. *(9)(12)

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Koos Nolst Trenite "Cause Trinity"
human rights philosopher and poet

'Men of all nations came
to listen to Solomon's wisdom,
sent by all the kings of the world,
who had heard of his wisdom.'

1 Kings 4:34

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Footnotes:

(*) As promised in:

'Detecting Criminal Minds By Their Intentional Omission Of Vital
Truth'
{HRI 20020819-V2.2.3}
(19 August 2002 - Version 2.2.3 on 12 May 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.brazil/msg/907447eab9a5f099
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(1) 'The Rights of Criminal Minds'
{HRI 20040108-V1.2.1}
(8 January 2004 - Version 1.2.1 on 9 Aug 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/93359b640af83e20

(2) 'Basic Economics - In Government and Enterprise, People Are
Not Objects'
{HRI note 20060201 version 3)
(1 February 2006 - note version 3, on 2 Feb 2006)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics/msg/5f1b235f38a95b4a

'The First Law of Economics'
{HRI-20031201}
(1 Dec 2003)
(to be issued)

(3) 'Standard Behavior Of Criminal Minds'
{HRI 20030509-V4.2.1}
(9 May 2003 - Version 4.2.1 on 30 Sept 2006)
http://groups.google.com/group/human-rights-issues/msg/1de918df6abdd38c?fcw=1
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics.org.un/msg/e18a87e4f1dd0c1f?fcw=1

(4) 'If Pilate Had Provided King Solomon's Justice...'
{HRI 20041102-V1.3}
(2 November 2004 - Version 1.3 on 2 Apr 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/human-rights-issues/msg/8a0076d89f741b32
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.anthropology/msg/10e1d33aa5888fe3

(5) 'Defining Love And Hate - A Law Of Life'
{HRI 20020729-V2.0}
(29 July 2002 - Version 2.0i on 7 January 2003)
http://groups.google.com/group/Koos-Nolst-Trenite/msg/40d2a6d4cadc84b1

(6) 'Two More Tools To Detect Criminal Minds'
{HRI 20030716}
(16 July 2003)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.europe/msg/7585a3f78ab01b75

(7) 'The Feeling "When God Has Left You..."
- Introduction to 'What is Hell' '
{HRI 20031124-V3.2}
(24 November 2003 - Version 3.2 on 16 May 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.religion/msg/3c6799e5a78fbda5

(8) 'Only 'Zero Tolerance For Criminal Minds' Can Tolerate Them'
{HRI 20040205-V3.0-beta-1-p1}
(Preview 1 of Version 3.0 PART ONE, on 26 Oct 2004)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics.reform/msg/8a0146742b1983c5
(PART TWO:)
'Only 'Zero Tolerance For Criminal Minds' Can Tolerate Them'
{HRI 20040205-V3.0-beta-1-p2}
(Preview 1 of Version 3.0 PART TWO, on 30 Oct 2004)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics.reform/msg/5e1dcc49fa4f82e5

(9) 'The Trinity Of Science - Truth, Love and Beauty'
{HRI 20030307-pi-1-V2.1}
(7 Mar 2003 - Version 2.1 on 17 Oct 2003)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.europe/msg/4129fa4f1a67840e

(10) 'The First Law of Human Rights' (FLOHR)
{HRI 20060601-V3.1}
(1 June 2006 - Version 3.1 on 10 July 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.military.naval/msg/23b408cd61f2d053

(11) 'Defining 'Destructive Coward' (Definition)'
{HRI 20050610-V3.2.2}
(10 June 2005 - Version 3.2 on 9 Sep 2006)
(Version 3.2 (or 3.2.2) published on 17 (or 18) May 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/4c3b304dfedd9f84

(12) 'Obviously the Second Law Of Human Rights' (SLOHR)
{HRI 20060924-V3.2}
(24 September 2006 - Version 3.2 on 6 Aug 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/99647b2379a3baa6
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References:

'If You Want Peace, Then Do Understand And Face Evil
- A Short Course In Human Rights Philosophy'
{HRI 20041225-V1.02}
(25 December 2004 - Christmas Day)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.rights.human/msg/34578c4c3a9f0b22

'Who Feels Bach Correctly - The Soul Of Music'
{HRI 20040704-V3.1}
(4 July 2004 - Version 3.1 on 12 June 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/Koos-Nolst-Trenite/msg/59073fd311d18594

'The Nature of War'
{HRI 20051027-V1.8.1}
(27 Oct 2005 - Version 1.8.1 on 4 May 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/71ca92e9e9d5e495
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